Music makes or breaks the vibe of a wedding.
It’s what brings the emotions during the ceremony, keeps things flowing during dinner, and gets everyone dancing at night.
Picking the right songs doesn’t have to be stressful, just think about what fits each moment of the day.
And if you’re using our wedding website, good news: you can create and share collaborative playlists with your guests.
Easy, fun, and totally personal.
What moments need music at your wedding?
You don’t need a full orchestra, but you do want the right music at the right times. Here are the key moments where music makes all the difference:
The Ceremony
This is the emotional core. You’ll need music for:
- The entrance (processional)
- The vows or any readings
- The exit (recessional)
Go for something that feels intimate.
Acoustic versions, soft instrumentals, or strings work great, or even a stripped down version of your favorite song.
Just keep it calm, heartfelt, and very you.
The Cocktail Hour
Time to relax and mingle.
The music should be chill but upbeat enough to keep the mood alive.
Think indie, jazz, soft soul, or mellow pop. Live music is a nice touch here, but a solid playlist does the job too.
The Dinner
People are talking and eating, so the music needs to stay in the background. Keep it smooth and non-distracting.
Acoustic covers, instrumental playlists, or soft classics work really well.
The First Dance
This one’s all yours.
It can be romantic, fun, serious, or totally unexpected.
Pick a song that means something to you, the lyrics, the vibe, the memory it brings.
No rules here. If it makes you smile (or cry, in a good way), it’s the one.
The Party
Now’s the time to go big.
The goal: get people on the dance floor and keep them there.
A good DJ or band will know how to balance your favorite tracks with crowd-pleasers.
Don’t be afraid to throw in guilty pleasures, people love them. You can even let guests suggest songs ahead of time using our collaborative playlist feature.
The Last Song
End on a high.
Choose a song that wraps up the night with good energy or something sentimental that leaves everyone feeling all warm and fuzzy.
Either way, make it count — people remember the last song.
Tips to Get It Right
Keep it personal. Forget what’s “supposed” to be wedding music, go with what feels right to you.
Don’t try to do everything yourself. If you’re not hiring a DJ, assign a friend to manage the playlists so you can just enjoy.
Use your wedding website to organize music ahead of time. With our platform, you can share playlists with guests, ask for song requests, and even build your reception playlist together.
Final Thought
The perfect wedding music isn’t about perfection, it’s about feeling.
If the music matches the mood and feels like you, that’s what makes it right. Plan it with care, enjoy every beat, and don’t forget to hit play.